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Go Out Or Stay Home

Q. I love to go out. My partner loves to stay home. We are both strong in our feelings. What to do?

A. Do both! Each week gift each other with what the other loves to do. When its your evening to gift your partner, give him the best evening at home you can. Find out what would make an evening at home totally delightful for him. Cook him dinner, rub his back and feet, draw him a hot bath and bathe him....whatever would really turn him on. Ask him to gift you with your perfect evening when its your turn to have the evening of your dreams. Take you dancing, to dinner...whatever you want! This means you both talk about what turns you on and what you want, which is fun to contemplate. When you both are committed to giving to each other in this way, not only will it totally thrill your partner, you will feel good about yourself for having given something of real value that juices the relationship more than flowers, diamonds or gold. To be loved in this way is the best aphrodisiac I can think of.